Thursday 15 November 2012

Stop Holding Grudges




"learn let go"
http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2010/07/8-Ways-to-Stop-Holding-a-Grudge.aspx

Let today be the day you stop being haunted by the ghost of yesterday. Holding a grudge and harboring anger or resentment is poison to the soul. Holding grudges is leting someone live rent free in your head.

Sometimes we are exposed to experiances so painful that they leave marks that are difficult to heal especially if we feel someone has wronged us. A natural response may be to develop a grudge or even hatred of the person who has caused us pain. But the person who holds the grudge always suffers more. I tell you "do not live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate." Forgiveness is not just a saying. It is giving up the resentment to which you are entitled and offering to the person who hurt your friendlier attitudes to which they are not entitled.  It is probably one of the hardest, yet most rewarding gift to give someone you love. However, some wounds run too deep for the healing but still, never let what somebody did to you ruin your hapiness forever. A life without forgivess is prison.

Let go, find peace, liberate yourself and remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, its for you too. Holding gruges helps no one but hinders your progress. No matter how right you may think you are, forgive and forget and the Lord's blessings shall befall unto you.

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