Waiting....

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I know waiting isn’t easy. We’re taught to expect instant gratification. We’re told we shouldn’t have to wait for anything. Too often we act on feelings or impulses, sacrificing the future by buying into the lie that sex equals love, leaving little room for commitment or marriage. But that’s not love and that’s not  reason for waiting.

I need you to know that what matters is not where you’ve been or what you’ve done, but where you’re going. More often we meet new people everyday and believe that we’d found each other, only to realize later that what you discovered wasn’t true love. Real love is so different from infatuation or simple pleasure. It isn’t abusive or selfish or purely physical. Real love involves mutual respect, affection, trust, equality, and a shared spirituality. Real love doesn’t revolve around sex! Real love grows into a relationship where sexual intimacy will only serve to express that love. 

Furthermore, sex before marriage brings many fears – pregnancy, STDs, the emotional scars associated with broken relationships. So, in the search for perfect love, it only makes sense to practice chastity and wait until you’re married to give yourself to the person you love.

Thinking about you

Madly in love

More and more I found my self thinking about you. Wondering where you are, what you are thinking and doing. Indeed it hurts a little not to be with you, but I can live with that for now, knowing that we'll spend the rest of our lives together.

I am writing this article because I think about you daily, you have become my addiction, my world, my life, my friend, just the lady I want. Every time I hear that one song, you on my mind from start to finish. You are heavenly sent. A gift from God and our future together will be filled with happiness and laughter which we truly deserve. However, thinking about you might make me jealous and insecure sometimes but that risk is worth to take.  You are like a sailing ship that brings food across the sea.

I probably don't know all the right things to say, but my feelings and words are from the heart. In the midst of it all, the thought of you calms and refreshes me - makes me smile in spite of my situation.

                                 "your charm is worth more than gold"

if not now then when?

"the wold's greatest politicians"

If not now then when? was a question asked by my childish mind according to the elders, when I express my passion for politics at a tender age immediately after completing high school.

Since I completed high school I struggled with securing a career in politics. I worked hard but some people were there to suppress my efforts. Anyways that's the game of politics, survival of the fittest, and ambush in the night. Instead of appreciating wisdom some people are there to destroy it. They always told me am still immature, my time will come. If not now, then when? I argued. "The future is not on our hands, it is unpredictable. we may think we know how things will go, but things rarely turn out exactly as we predict (often not even close)." However, that made me even more wise and know that there will never be the right time in this universe except now. If you wait for the right time its like waiting for Jesus, that time will never appear. Generations and generations will pass while still waiting for the right time.

Its now or never. The history of greatest politicians and leaders proves that the world's greatest leaders like Winston Churchill were trained from childhood. The everyday risks they encounter made them strong continuously. Every big thing was once a small thing. The question if not now then when? was indeed by breaking through into politics at a tender age.

Watch this space

"will own this baby soon"

"they say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself"~ Andy Warhol

Without doubt, I am going to look back at 07 July 2007, where I was involved in a car accident that brought lots of changes in my life. I was left with permanent injuries that left me in support of a walking stick for as long as I live. However, today Am climbing higher one step at a time, watch this space.

This day destroyed many of my future plans including that of my career as a private pilot. On August 2007, I was due to begin my Private Pilot License (PPL) in Port Alfred after passing medical test in Pretoria, and proving  capabilities of flying an airplane. All this efforts went down the drain. However, one of my friends told me "there is always a positive angle to look at things". Indeed his words were eye opening. Today, I look at life in a different perspective. Besides all the injuries I sustained during the car accident, I am still moving forward. I have changed my career path and looking forward at the crystal ball."I am never standing still, and that makes my life pretty exiting.

So needless to say that year 2007 was a sad and eye opening year, thus changes had to be made and with immediate effect. Indeed I began my life career from scratch and I am looking forward to ownership of greater things. Watch my space, I won't retreat without a fight. Soon I will look back at the past and smile "wow this is me".

"with a new day comes new strength and new thoughts ~ Author unknown

Be willing to fail



"tired to do job"
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We must be willing to fail and appreciate the truth that often "Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived." The more times you try, the more you will fail and succeed. To avoid failure is to avoid success. It is better to try and fail than fail to try.

A men self trust is one of his greatest assets. When he second -guess himself by worrying about failure, he destroy himself. An intelligent person considers the prospects of failure, but doesn't preoccupy himself with pointlees worries. He accepts outcomes of failure and deal with them. However, don't make friends with failure for you will keep repeating the same things again and again.

Failure is where treasure is. A wise man grows more from failure than he does from success. Success has its challenges, but a wise man learns more about himself when he takes on challenges that involve risk. When a man plays it safe, he loses his vitality, furthermore loses his edge.

Have You Figured a Second Head Fake?

It will be damn stupid of me to deny this. Yes, I have figured the second head fake. It is the unrealistic head that controls the things I do, therefore my second head fake is my passion for richness.

A second head fake is like phantom pain. For example in an amputated limp, you constantly feel pain of something that doesn't exist. Likewise with the second head fake, it controls my thinking while it doesn't exist. My passion for richness controls the things I do, it makes me selfish and self-centred. I want everything for myself, I don't care how I get it and who is hate along the line but as long as I get what I want. However, because am an ethical person the second head fake protects my economy from strangers that want a share they don't deserve.

A second head fake messes your life if you not aware of it. It can destroy you completely from the earth surface. It is like a weevil in a maize seed, it eats the inside and leave the shell.  

"fake head"
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100 Things to do before I die



"explore the unexplored"
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 Writing 100 things to do before I die can waste lots of my time thus I will shorten it. Before I die I would love to explore the unexplored in my beautiful continent Africa.

As I grew to understand life, I have learnt that he who never walks except where he sees other men's tracks will make no discoveries. likewise, walking on the white men's track will not help explore the opportunities of the beautiful continent, but will limit our minds to an individual's understanding. There are so many things to be explored in Africa including mesmerising places where one can enjoy the total tranquillity or be part of the endless crown. Moreover, Africa is still to find its governance system. Therefore, it is within my destiny to ensure Africa finds a system of governance that is in line with 'ubuntu'. "I Africa itakwakha kwayo."

Julius Cesar once said cowards die many times before their death. Thus before I die I want to take the road less travelled and live a life less ordinary, not living by the ideology of a white men. There is still so much to explore in Africa.