Life Brings Golden Moments



"self-motivated"

Life is too precious to worry about stupid things. So have fun, live life and fall in love. Say what you want to say and do what you want to do. Regret nothing and don't let people who don't matter bring you down.

Life is too short to spend with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone want you in their life, they'll make room for you. You shouldn't have to fight for a spot. Never ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth and remember it is not people that stand by your side when you are at your best, but the ones who stand besides you when you are at your worst that are your true friends. However, its okay to fall apart for a little while. You don't always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. Cry if you need to, its healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.

Most importantly, stop waisting time explaining yourself to others. Your friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right. Be with people who are fire lighters. Life is important, life is valuable, like diamond and gold. Let righteous men be your dinner companions and let your glorifying be in the fear of the Lord.

Use Facebook Right

"On facebook"

Facebook is the cheapest way of getting in contact with people and making friends. Moreover, it keeps people busy rather than thinking about committing crimes. Most importantly; one can be updated with information about whats happening in his own country or any country at large.

However, not all is rosy with facebook. Many people are curious about people they contact and sometimes can't resist meeting them in person. This is a life risk, I say this because I have been using facebook as my hunting ground for the past 3 years and it worked wonders. Girls results loosing their virginity just because they are generally trusting.

Horrific stories about the use of facebook without learning about the positive and negative effects are being announced through the media but people do not shape up. It is clear that some people are not vigilant as they continue to be reckless by making this silly mistake of generously accepting everybody. My question is if our sisters, I may say (ladies) post their half-naked pictures, what do they think will follow???

Using facebook is not very costly but the results may cost somebody's life. To all facebook fanatics, I am not jealous please! I kindly request you to use it the right way with the right people and for the right purpose. Remember that "what seems good to people often has a bad ending".

I am...a Thinker.



"with great analytical skills"

You cannot be true to yourself until you know who you are. Being true to yourself is about developing and expressing your talents and uniqueness, doing things you feel you were born to do. Likewise, with me, I had to make time to find out my core values and discover my passion. Indeed thinking is my greatest talent.

Thinking requires time, patience and most importantly loneliness more often. In everything I do I think first, sometimes it takes much of my time to even come with the simplest solution. As a thinker I have great analytical skills, I focus on the most minute details and my ability to conceptualise ideas easily allows me to anticipate exactly where things might go wrong. I also have a split personality; On one hand, my matter of fact manner means that I am consistent and accurate. On the other hand I have an insatiable curiosity and keen ability to look within myself for inspiration.

Furthermore, my thoughts are organised and I love the planning and problem solving process of any undertaking. When it comes to measuring success I don't rely on the outside praise. To me, the act of achieving is reward enough.

The Emotional Muscle: Gratitude



"doors of success"
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I am totally convinced that the key to long life success is the regular exercise of a single emotional muscle: gratitude. To me gratitude is the master key that opens all doors of possibility. It is sincere appreciation for blessings we have received.

People who approach life with a sense of gratitude are constantly aware of whats wonderful in their life because they enjoy the fruits of their success, they look out for more success. When things don't go as planned, people who are grateful put failer into perspective. They believe failer is where treasure is. On the other hand, people who lack gratitude are never truly happy. If they succeed at a task, they don't enjoy it. for them a string of success is like trying to fill a bucket with a huge leak in the bottom. The worst part is that failer makes them bitter, angry and discouraged.

Therefore , if you want to be successful, you need to feel more gratitude. Fortunately, gratitude, like most emotions , is like a muscle: The more you use it, the stronger and more resilient it becomes thus many more doors of success avail themselves to you.

Misfortunes are Blessings in Disguise



"time will tell"

There is a Chinese saying: Misfortunes are blessings in disguise. Not only do I believe that this is true bout I also live by it. Whenever something happens, I don't look at it as a misfortune or bad luck but as the opposite.

For me its a challenge to fight until I get what I want. But I also believe that sometimes not getting what you want can be God's way of saying "its not your time yet. I have reserved even better  and greater things for you. All you need is patience." There are many people whose lives have been changed for the better by their misfortunes. If only we could  understand that sometimes a loss or bad experience can turn up not to be the end of us but the beginning of something good.

We all had those dreams that never materialised but we realised that it was for the best that it didn't. Truly misfortunes can sometimes be blessings in disguised.